Hi there! I’m not going to lie, I’ve been feeling incredibly
guilty the past few months when it comes to my New Year’s resolutions. I made
them but I feel like I haven’t taken a big enough step to accomplish them – you
could probably tell by how often I write this column. I guess that’s something
that comes along with writing these resolutions. You sit down at the end of the
year and basically write down everything that you didn’t like about what you
did the year before and things that you want to change for the better.
When you’re doing any form of self-improvement, you’re
constantly teetering on the edge of having an optimistic and motivated mindset
and a negative one that plunges you into a never-ending sea of guilt and self-loathing, which is hardly the goal.
I think my problem has been that I’m trying to approach this
too theoretically, or maybe that’s not the word I’m looking for. The way I’ve
been looking at it for the past couple months is as a to-do list that I have to
check off everyday, if that clarifies my meaning a bit. But now that I look
back at the list of resolutions, I’ve been doing pretty well. Not fantastic by
any means, but pretty good. Keep reading to find out how exactly I’m doing on
each one of them!